by Hokua oe Lopqi Lokki

Created on: July 22, 2009   Last Updated: August 31, 2009

Is returning to an ex-partner, ex-lover, ex-spouse repeatedly Karma or weakness? This is a question asked sometimes. This is actually a very complex question and is not easily answered. A professional counselor or psychologist may best to answer it or you can even use one of those psychic hotline people. Whether or not they are certified isn't the only or rather the real question.

Your question should be who can I talk to that will be objective in this. Family can be great but are they really objective? I don't really think they can be. From personal experience the family can either turn on you and route for the team the ex instead when in reality they should be defending their own team. So you need someone who is on the outside who doesn't know either party who will listen to what you have to say, all the way through and help you you're your choice, someone who listens and answers these questions daily. Most importantly, you want to have an opinion that is not obstructed by personal feelings or views (an objective opinion).

Maybe the person isn't really psychic, but they are willing to listen to what you have to say for a fee, which is all that a counselor or any other trained professional does. They may even be willing to give you advice, which is exactly what a trained professional would do.

When a person returns to an ex-partner, ex-lover or ex-spouse, it doesn't necessarily have to have anything at all to do with karma. It is not always a sign of weakness. Some of these women are stronger for the return. (It actually depends on the situation.) Some of them truly are weak. (This also depends on the situation.)
Running From an Abusive Situation:

If you are afraid that the person will hurt you if you leave them, that can be a sign of weakness. If you think you "are nothing without this person" "that you can't find anyone better and that you will be doomed to spend your life alone, if you don't stay with them", that can be a sign of weakness.

Some men have been taught not to hit a woman, and I am so glad for this. However, some of these men end up beaten themselves. You shouldn't hit a woman if you are a man, and a woman shouldn't hit a man. Either situation is degrading to the other. In truth, no one has the right to be hitting or hurting another person or creature, be it physically or mentally. Hurting someone or something else is a sign of weakness, and karma will get these people who do harm.

The karma that they receive is that harm will

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