by Stephanie Moore

Created on: July 21, 2009

My first thought on helping them to get a job: tell them to get their butt out there and find one, and only when they have exhausted every resource, connection, and interview they have, help them find one through your own resources.

If you are a parent that has a young child, this article is for you too. As your child grows, encourage them to build their resume by participating in leadership opportunities, sports, and clubs. That way, when they are old enough to get interviews for summer and part time jobs, they have a way to prove their dependability and dedication. Look for a Key Club, Juniorettes, 4-H, or other service organization in your area and GET INVOLVED. These activities also have benefits besides being resume builders: they enhance your own life by helping your fellow humans.

If your child is already at a job ready age, get them to turn in as many applications as possible, even at places that they don't think will ever hire them. Some factories and shops look for short term employees for a week or so to do one specific job, and if your child has put in an application, they are likely to get a call. Then, about a week after turning in each application, if no call has been made to your child from the places of business, have them return in person or call the places that they applied and ask about the status of their applications. Confronting the employers face to face or on the phone will make them think that your child is serious about getting a job. Some may hire on the spot. If none of this works, have your child wait another week and then do it all again. Return to all of the places that they applied and ask about the status of their application.

If your child cannot get a job on their own after a while, check at the places that you or your family visit frequently. If you attend a church with elderly people who need their lawns mowed or raked, cars washed, or pets taken care of, have your child offer to do it for them. Have them ask neighbors, teachers, co-workers, and family friends about any help they may need around the house. Chances are if your child gives up his or her time to help them, they will want to pay for the service.

As your child gets older and continues to build his or her resume, the job search will become easier and they will become more attractive to employers. Just stick to it, and something will come along.

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