by Walter Abrone

Created on: July 14, 2009

Why do mother's interfere with marriage is one of the most common questions of married couples. We sometimes say we really don't understand why they do it and often we try to sympathize to a certain degree of why they do it. The fact is there is not just one simple answer to why they do this, so I will give you a few reasons on why this occurs.

No matter how old you are or get to them you still and always will be their little baby, so they feel a need to protect you. They often do this by pointing out signs of danger within your relationship. Maybe he forgot to leave the toilet seat down, she takes it as he doesn't think about you vice versa etc Every marriage has its ups and downs and mothers understand this but do not like seeing it. That is why a lot of arguing attracts mother.

If you had a friend walking toward a bridge that was out you would warn him that the bridge was out. Imagine if that good friend were a sister or brother and amplify that by ten and you would have the same love a mother has for her children. If your sister, brother, or father were walking toward that same bridge you would tug and pull maybe down right slug him so he would not fall off that bridge and that is what mothers do to there children marriage. She tugs and pulls at your marriage so you don't make the same mistakes she has or worst trying to keep it from falling in that whole.

Mothers ultimately just want what is best for their children. Often they don't realize the bond their child has with their significant other. And when two people come together in marriage their character rubs off on one another. Mothers perceive this sometimes as a bad influence or your partner is taking her child away from her.

Intrusive mothers often try to push their children to pick and pull from their lives. Meaning they try to get their child to take out of her life what she did right and use it as a tool to succeeding with their life. She pushes for them to see what she did wrong so they can use that as a map for their lives. Causing conflict to plans made within their child's marriage.

Also mothers like to take care of their child. Nine months of pregnancy, eighteen years of motherhood is a hard bond for a mother to break and a lot of times they do not trust their child's significant other is capable of doing what has done the majority of his life. There are many other reasons to why mothers interfere with marriage these reasons given at least should scratch the surface.

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