by Anonymouse

Created on: July 13, 2009   Last Updated: July 28, 2009

Certain people were simply meant to be together. Unfortunately, others force their relationships; often out of fear or loneliness. One person might keep returning to an ex for a variety of reasons. It could be karma, or even fate. Then again, weakness might also bring two people back together time and time again. So how do you know what keeps drawing you to that "special someone"? Consulting a psychic can help anyone figure whether the deciding factor is karma or weakness.

Recognizing Karma

Karma is determined by past actions - good or bad. According to the rules of karma, decisions you make now will affect your life in the future. Good karma will change your circumstances for the better, and bad karma will cause serious problems to arise. Consider your past. Have you done more good deeds that bad? Have you always been kind to others? If you have a great track record, and your recurring relationship brings you much happiness, it may very well be the result of karma. Bad karma may lead people back to relationships destined to make them unhappy. Some people believe that karma from a previous life will follow you into the next. If you think this might be happening to you, a psychic consultation could provide some clarity.

Admitting Weakness

Not every relationship was written in the stars. Nonetheless, some people find it nearly impossible to let go of their exes. They keep returning to lovers who are hardly good for them, hoping for a major change that never comes. Such relationships are certainly not a product of karma. The couples who keep getting back together are surrendering to weakness! It might be fear of change, being alone, or never finding love again. For anyone who has this problem, the first step to breaking away is admitting weakness. Figure out why you keep going back to a person who's not good for you. Then think of the reasons you broke up in the first place! Why repeat it and get hurt again? Leaving somebody you love is never easy. Still, it's often best to leave things as they are after a break-up, and simply move forward in life.

When It's Serious

Occasionally, relationships need to end for safety reasons. The fact that an individual keeps coming back may have nothing to do with weakness. Especially in abusive relationships, the victim might be too scared to leave. After being put through so much, some people believe they really aren't worthy of a healthy relationship. That's far from the truth! In any case of physical or verbal abuse,

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