by Stephen Riter

Created on: July 12, 2009   Last Updated: July 27, 2009

Taking Control of Your Life Through Psychic Advice

Love is said to be one of the most powerful human emotions, along with hate. But taking a closer look, they are as intertwined and related as genius to madness. How much control then, do we have over who we love, or who we hate, for that matter? As much as we are made of star stuff, how much control does star stuff have over our fate?

There are countless examples of "star crossed lovers;" those lovers whose love affairs are ill-fated from the start. There are Romeo and Juliet, Anthony and Cleopatra, Catherine and Heathcliff, Tristan and Isolde, and the list goes on. How then, does one know if they are in a relationship of star crossed lovers meant to be together, but who just cannot seem to stay together.

We fall in love and the gates of Hades open. It's a tumultuous relationship of falling in and out of love. We part ways, but soon our paths cross again and the cycle starts all over. Perhaps you have witnessed this happening from time to time. The two feel they are soul mates, but it does not work out for this reason or that. Maybe it was because their karma was different or basically opposed to one another. They break up, but eventually are back together. They may feel that they are caught in a never-ending cycle. How many times do they have to try to make this work before it catches? If they believe that it is their destiny to be with this person no matter what it takes, can they find out?

It is true that many (if not most) single people are absorbed with finding true love. If we are constantly bickering with our partner, it may be time to work on finding some common ground that we can agree on. For some, that could seem like just too much effort and it might just be easier for them to end the relationship, than actually put effort into it to try to resolve their differences. Remembering what brought the couple together, is a place to start. Then considering that they may already have found love, perhaps they should stay the course. Then again, maybe they are being lazy or have qualms about going "back into circulation." The singles market is a grueling one; who would want to put themselves through that again?! Finding love may not be the incessant visits to singles' groups or blind dates, it may be what one already had or has or what they are learning to accept. The one they had that special connection with, the one who seemed to be the one, may indeed be.

Consider this;

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