by Kimberly Bunch

Created on: July 11, 2009   Last Updated: July 30, 2009

Returning to a troubled relationship with your ex-spouse repeatedly can be both karma and weakness. Even more, before you were even born you mapped out your life chart and key players in that chart whom you would meet up with. It was destiny in more ways than one, having bonded, and formed the relationship.

By taking into consideration that there is so much more going on in a wider prospective, when it comes to understanding your souls journey here. Which will help you understand the why behind it all. Your soul is learning through experiencing. You are only going to be here in this dimension, in this lifetime for a short period of time. What is 100 years compared to the never ending time you have, that your soul lives on for eternity?

The average person can not even begin to grasp or to understand the significant spiritual manifestation behind what is actually happening in their life on a higher level of understanding. Which is the bigger picture that is involved. Your own individual soul is here to grow and learn from the encounters you have while on the earth plane level.

Even more, by you being aware that everything happens for a reason in your life will help you look broader at the possibilities for why things happen like they do. Whether the relationship you are in or were in is caused by your weakness for needing someone, anyone to love and care for you or due to karma is up to you to decide if it is either of those things. Furthermore, you can call it what you want. Some people look at it as karma or weakness that caused something negative to happen. In the big picture, you and everyone else are all here on earth learning what you can from each other. The key thing here is to learn the lesson behind the reason for why the relationship happened in the first place if the relationship was a total disaster. Why you needed him / her in your life at that time.

It is important to learn, to understand on a higher level in order to understand fully what is happening in your life. Take a step, or two back and view your life situation in order to better grasp, to better understand the bigger picture.

Furthermore, it does no good to walk away with a black cloud around you from having yow-yowed through 'marital dysfunctions'. Once you are out of a relationship it is vital that you try not to hold onto bitter feelings, or a victim mentality. Instead understand that he / she also needed to learn something from you, and that is why you both came together.

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