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First you need to ask yourself if it's really important that your friend knows that singing is not their forte. If your friend is not pursuing a career in singing, then what's the harm in an off key note?

On the other hand, if your friend is adamant on pursuing a career in the music business but does not have a singing bone in their body, then of course, break the news to them gently without breaking their heart. But remember, your friend will still be upset. Be prepared for it.

For your friend, this kind of information is going to be devastating, especially if their serious about it. Keep that in mind. This kind of news should not be taken lightly. A sit-down talk is very much needed in this type of situation.

Ask your friend if this is really something he/she wants. Make sure you reassure him/her that you are looking out for their best interest only, and that you don't want disappointment to come their way. Find an alternative to singing. Let your friend know that if it doesn't work out there will always be the alternative. Make aware that you will be there to support them even if they decide to pursue singing. If you know failure is at the end of the road, let your friend walk this journey and allow your friend to experience all they can. Failure is not the end of the world.

There are always better things to say rather than telling them out right that they are not that good at what they love to do.

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