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is sometimes distorted, while at times it might be the truth but who are we to judge anyone? We all make mistakes but no one sees it, it doesn't get plastered in the tabloids because we are not celebrities.

In the end, if you are a religious person, you will believe that God defines you by what is in your heart. Your family defines you by your actions and the feelings that you evoke in them while others on the outside define you by what they read about you or by what someone else has said about you. The most important thing to ever think about is how you define you and how would you want to be defined? By my peers and family, I want to be defined by the joy they see on my face when I smile at them or the feelings I display when I hug them or even shake their hand. By God, I am happy to say that, I want to be defined by everything I have in my heart.

So think of that person you desire to be; create that type of person. It might mean you will have to change the beliefs you have about your own mood, attitudes and values but by doing this you will start to change to becoming that person you have always wanted to be. By being the person you want to be no one can take that away from you unless you allow them to do so. A strong belief in yourself will enable you to overcome any obstacle your life might encounter.

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