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In this age, a lot more negativity is coming our way. What can you do to stop the cycle? First off, tell yourself why are you feeling so negative. If you know your reason, then what can you do about it?

First thing first, stop thinking negative. Whatever your life is at that point, stop thinking about the bad and think about the good. Are you still alive? If yes, then that's one positive step. Do you feel lonely, even though you have family and friends to support you? If yes, then that's another. That's why you have family and friends, they are there to support you and care for you, if have them, then they will help you.

Do you any negative people who impact your life and you get together and talk about on how bad your life is? if yes, then get away from those people, as far away as you can. Those negative people just fuel your negative energy, they make you feel worse or even more negative, step away and guide yourself toward the positive people in your life, they are the light that will guide you.

What exactly do you want out of your life? One of the main reasons why people feel so negative is because there is a variable in their life that's not up to par. What exactly is it then? If you know what it is, then take the intiative to fix the problem. You don't like your job? Then look for a better one. Feel like you are not worth it? Everyone has their own worth, find out what it is, then use it to impact someone else's life.

You will be surprised to see that if you surround yourself with positive people, and somehow evaluate your life and find out why you are so unhappy. Once you receive positivity, you will feel good about yourself and then that's when the personal healing can begin. Don't carry yourself with negative energy, it takes a toll on your body. If you feel like giving up, you at least have friends or family that will always be there to hear you and support you, which explains why negative people feel so negative, they feel like people won't want to hear about their problems. The people that care about you the most are here for you and that's why they want to help, talking about how you feel is a good start to feeling positive.

Receiving good feedback helps bring your spirits back up. Negativity brings darkness, positivity brings light. It's a motto that everyone should live by, recite it to yourself and keep telling yourself that everything is going to be okay. Remember surrounding yourself with positivity is the big step from keeping yourself negative.

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