by Shen-Li Lee

Created on: July 01, 2009

With toddlers who become as stiff as a board the moment you attempt to strap them into a car seat and cry non-stop until they throw up, it is no wonder many parents dread a car ride with a toddler. Driving with a toddler in the car can be a very stressful event that often leaves some parents thinking twice about whether they really need to leave the house. If this sounds like your experiences with your toddler, here are some tried and tested tips for surviving the car ride with a toddler.

1. Timing

For some toddlers, there is an optimum time after a nap where their disposition and mood is most accommodating. It might be a window of two hours after waking up in the morning when your child will be most willing to tolerate a car ride in the car seat. Determine what this window is for your child by making note of all the times when your child has been most accommodating in the car seat.

2. Be Ready

Make sure you have everything you need for your outing packed and loaded into the car before strapping your child into the car seat. The last thing you wan to do is leave your toddler waiting in the car while you run back to the house for an extra diaper or snacks.

If your child is a breastfed toddler, make sure you nurse your child sufficiently before getting into the car. Sometimes a little nursing time is just the thing that your toddler needs to survive the journey.

3. Getting into the Car Seat

For toddlers who immediately adopt the "plank position" when they spy the car seat you need to keep them distracted with an activity while you carry them out to the car. It might be a favourite toy, book or a really special treat reserved only for very special occasions - you know your toddler best.

4. Distractions in the Car

After getting a toddler securely into the car seat, surviving the journey is the next task. The best thing you can do to prevent the crying is distract, distract, distract. As each toddler is a unique individual, each child will respond differently to different distraction objects. Additionally, different ages and stages of development will require different distraction tools. Here are some possible distractions you can use depending on your child's interest and stage of development:

- Keep a bag of interesting objects for a young toddler to examine. For instance, toy keys, catalogues with lots of pictures, board books, cloth books, etc.

- Generally objects that your toddler can manipulate will occupy his or her attention for longer.

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