by Lynette Alice

Created on: July 01, 2009   Last Updated: September 12, 2009

Finding new and creative ways to turn your man on is a challenge because it isn't easy being sexy all the time. Sexy things that turn a man on aren't necessarily all sexual in nature contrary to what many people think. Being sexy can be taking care of your family, it can be you when you are dead tired and looking like a mess because you volunteered time to help the less fortunate, or any number of things. Anything can be sexy, it is all in the eyes of the beholder. Since men hold the eyes we are talking about, there are some things you can do which your man will find sexy that please him to no end, and no you don't have to include saran wrap and a necktie to try any of these out.

Your first sexy tip is to initiate physical contact, and please be aware that does not mean sex! Sure it may lead to sex if yo do it right, but in the beginning it is just very innocent touching. It is coming up behind him and wrapping your arms around while you whisper sweet nothings in his ear. It is playing footsie under the table when you are having dinner with his parents, which believe it or not has that taboo element for most men due to the presence of their parents. Just make sure you play footsies with the right foot. The bottom line is men find it sexy when you initiate any form of physical contact aside from demonstrating on them what you learned in crotch punching class.

Stroke his ego by extolling his manly virtues. Tell him how strong and he is and how much you depend on him. Marvel at how he twists the lid off the pickle jar with minimal effort. Let him think of himself as Lancelot and you as Guinevere, it feeds his fantasy and reassures him that you really do need and depend him. Maybe you could open that jar easier than him, and maybe you are the breadwinner, but letting him think he is control is something he will find very sexy.

Give him a free pass to go out with his buddies no questions asked, no curfews, and no strings attached. The fact that you trust him so much that you would let him do this will turn him on beyond belief. Forget what you have seen in the movies or read in your romance novels, this is what men really fantasize about. They will brag about you letting them do this more than the night you called God's name five times! There is simply nothing sexier than you showing your man you trust him!

Dress up in his favorite outfit and greet him at the door when he comes home for no reason. Nothing in the world says it has to be a special occasion for you

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