by Sherry Goodman

Created on: June 29, 2009   Last Updated: July 01, 2009

Here I was thinking that all women thought like me! Of course women want sex as much as men. I think we want it more! I mean I am sure there are the ones that just haven't enjoyed pleasures that have brought them to their peak, but ladies... I am at my peak! I LOVE sex! I absolutely love it ... If there is a conversation going on about sex and I am anywhere around, you better believe I am all up in the middle of it. Sex is also a stress reliever as well as an enjoyment. Personally, I carry sex to the max, whether it be with my companion or by myself. I am ALWAYS going to get mine! Any woman at any given time should get complete satisfaction from sex.

There are so many ways for a woman to enjoy sex. Daily I look for different ways to "spice" it up. I would love to share some of my ideas with you ladies.

#1. I write poetry and I focus on sex often. When I am writing, I clear my mind. I think of nothing but sex. I write about my fantasies that have been fulfilled, as well as fantasies that haven't yet been fulfilled. I write about my past experiences, as well as my present experiences. Often while writing my "clicker" starts clicking. Right away this puts me in the mood and satisfaction soon follows.

#2. I talk to my companion about my sexual desires. I tell him exactly what I want/need. This helps our sexual relationship grow. Sometimes when I am discussing my desires with him, I notice he is getting "worked up" and we all know when a man gets worked up ... guess what follows? Yes! SATISFACTION!

#3. I try to pleasure myself at least once a week, if not more. When I am alone, I often touch myself in forbidden places. I want to know my body unlike anyone else. I search for my "spots". All of us women have certain spots that thrill us more than others. I do this when I am bathing, laying in my bed, watching a romantic movie alone or when I am just bored. I have found that because of all my experiences with masturbation... my sexual desires are growing.

#4. I read articles that talk about oral sex. I love performing oral sex on my man. When it comes to his pleasures, I intend to give him exactly what he wants. Also, who knows your body better than yourself? NO-ONE! I always read articles that women have written about their experiences with oral sex. This gives me ideas that I can try. When I find something new that I haven't tried or that my husband hasn't already performed on me, I DO IT! I tell him what I want, how I want him to do it and exactly where to go. I tell him how fast or slow. I tell him if I want to feel his tongue or if I want him to suck.

Furthermore, I insist that he does it just the way I tell him. Yes, this is where I "dominate" and guess what ladies? It feels so good to be in control!
In closing, I feel that more women should speak freely about their sexuality. I am never ashamed to discuss sex. I will even talk about it with my mother and sisters. Once you begin speaking freely about your sexuality , you will notice a HUGE difference in your wants and desires. So, my answer is YES women want sex as much as men do, if not MORE!
T00dles till next time!

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