by Kamelia Morgan

Created on: June 27, 2009   Last Updated: July 29, 2009

Firstly, an individual needs to understand what constitutes cheating; as what may be cheating to one person is simply flirting, or otherwise by another. When one enters a relationship whether it is just cohabitation or marriage, there has to be a level of respect; there needs to be a line which the person's within said relationship does not dare cross. It is through disrespect for the other person, undisciplined, dishonesty, greediness and one's knack to satisfy their own self indulgence, why they would go out and cheat on someone who has sacrificed their time, their energy, their love and emotional support to a relationship taken completely for granted by the one they are with. Many people do not even consider their partners when they attempt, plan or decide to cheat. There are so many unscrupulous people within society that is very much bent on destroying the lives of others. There are so many self esteem issues, baggage and move on issues which result from those who have been through these trials. Initially identifying what is meant by cheating one will better understand and know how to avoid instances which may lead to these actions. To cheat in a social aspect mean s to deceive to bamboozle to defraud. That is exactly what a person does to their partner when they decide to give their emotional support as well as their physical selves to another apart from the person you are committed to. The moment your clothes go out the door and you lay down with another person that is not your significant other, so does the future or enhancement of your relationship. The problem in today's society is that we see cheat as a casual, social, uncontrollable behavior, where the players have no will over themselves. But that is truly not the case- the things we do, are things we choose as individuals to do no gun to the head, no force, no one saying you must! We need to have more self control and we need to respect each other, especially when it pertains to a sharing your life or lifestyle with another person who entrusted you with their conviction. If we start looking at cheating as it really is which is a man or woman being intimate with another individual who is not their life partner or mate.

It is one thing to forgive something, anything for that matter, because moving on always depends on how hurt, betrayed, disgusted, and responsible the victim feels. It is not easy in these moments to outcast oneself or not insert reasons surrounding oneself as to why one's partner

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