by Sherry Goodman

Created on: June 22, 2009   Last Updated: June 27, 2009

Who wants to buy a car without test driving it first? Not me! I had a rule when I started dating after my marriage. #1 rule. You must kiss me before I will even agree to go out on a date with you. Why you ask? Simple! If I find you attractive and I feel some chemistry, I need to make sure it's felt in more ways than one ... So, kiss me! If my heart skips a beat, or if I feel like I just wanna eat you up and never stop kissing you, then "yes" I will agree to go out with you, but ... If I kiss you and "ugh" "slobbery" "bad breath" something in those lines come to mind ..."No, thank you!".

Too many people view sex as dirty. I don't know about you all, but I welcome dirty sex! The passion... lust ...craving... just does something to me. I don't want sex... I NEED sex! I would never marry a guy that I have never had sex with. How ridiculous is that? I mean... what if? ... Let's say ... You marry this guy and the time has come for you to make love. He can't even please you. He just thinks solely of himself. He can't even get a rise. You feel like just saying hurry up and get this over with? Is this what you signed up for till death do you part? Some life you are going to have!

Try it out! You're on a date and this guy is sexy. Wow, what he is doing to you?He is making all the right moves and it feels good! Go with it girlfriend. But YES be safe, of course! Men are all about, "Baby, I am gonna rock your world."... Well, time for you to rock his! The kisses have started and they are progressing. His hand begins to mingle in forbidden places and you like it. YES, I know you like it! Because? I tell you why... Because, it feels damn good! You want to stop this? No! Here's a phrase I love... "Show daddy what momma is made of!"... This is why a lot of men stray because his woman doesn't give him what he needs. Don't be scared! Don't think, "Oh, I can't do this I am too embarrassed."...If it feels good ....DO IT!

Back in the 40s and 50s men and women had a whole different view on sex. Baby, let's get married... Say "I Do" ...Turn out the lights... Undress... Get in the bed... Kiss a little ...Then .... Only one way to have sex... Man on top and up and down... Well, those days are FAR, FAR over! Today, Hey my name is ________________. Let's go out and have some fun. Go to a club... Feel the passion start stirring up inside of you. Make your move girlfriend! YES, you make the move. Don't wait on him. You maybe waiting forever. IF IT FEELS GOOD ...DO IT! Take him back to your place, or if you can't wait ...Say, "Where's your car?"... Time to get dirty. And YES it is OKAY.

If you feel like you just can't do this or it's not right... Then it's not for you! If you are a good girl and go by your good book, then maybe you need to get married then think about sex. But, us naughty girls in today's world say ............... " We welcome sex before marriage!"...

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