by BklynMom

Created on: June 21, 2009   Last Updated: June 24, 2009

So, here you are: beautiful baby, some free time, and an invitation to come over with your beautiful little bundle.

Now what?

Socialization is fun and necessary for both parent and baby, but it can be a little daunting, intimidating, and even downright scary sometimes when it comes to travelling with your little one. Here are some helpful tips to survive (without pulling your hair out!).

Be prepared: The Boy Scouts can't be wrong following this motto, right? It can be a helpful tool for the visiting parent, too. Be sure to have a bag packed with all of the necessities: diapers, wipes, diaper rash cream, burping cloths, baby bottle, formula, and even a change of clothes (babies can and will stain and dirty the cutest little outfit in the shortest amount of time imaginable). You don't have to pack as if you're going on an extended stay, but keep in mind how long you will be staying, and make sure you have enough baby formula or baby foods, especially if you'll be visiting during the baby's feeding time. Also, keep in mind what activities you may be doing while you're there. Will you be indoors? Will you be going for a walk? Having a cup of coffee at the cafe?

Plan, and then re-plan: Keep in mind that if your baby will be out of their normal environment, they might not be too happy with that and they will let you know! Plan to be ready to re-plan. Your visit may have to be preempted if your baby is not comfortable at all with their new surroundings, and they don't seem to be ready to be so anytime soon.

Know the environment: Will the home you will be visiting have pets, such as a dog or a cat? Is the household filled with smokers? This is critical to know, especially with infant children who may be allergic. If this is the case, then you may want to consider meeting with the person someplace else.

Don't be afraid to set some ground rules: Some people are afraid to lay the groundwork for some rules about their babies, especially when they are guests. Don't be afraid to ask your friend to turn their stereo down if they can be heard from three blocks away, or to insist that if someone is sick with something contagious, that they not handle the baby. When it comes to the safety and health of your baby, most people will actually be understanding and not find you to be diva-ish.

Use your common sense: Is baby sick? Are you not feeling well? It would be best to reschedule. Expecting a major storm or traffic? Schedule to meet earlier, later, or at another time.

Relax! This may seem impossible when traveling with a baby, but do try to. Enjoy these moments with your child, because they will pass more quickly than you will realize. Enjoy every new day, every new experience, every new adventure with your baby. The benefits of the memories makes it all worthwhile!

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