by Leigh Goessl

Created on: June 20, 2009

Text messaging has rapidly become a huge part of human interaction. While text messaging definitely has its pros and cons, in relationships there are special considerations which should be taken when it comes to sending text messages.

When using text messaging as a communication source in relationships, there is etiquette that is a good idea to follow. Contact, body language and personal conversations are all important aspects of relationships, and too much texting can change this dynamic. As a result it has a tendency to put unnecessary stress on the partnership.

Here are a few of the top do's and don'ts in relationship text messaging:

Do's

*Send sweet messages

Want to send a quick note telling a loved one you're thinking about them, by all means do it! Chances are your text message will put a big smile on their face. Before you do this though, consider your mate's response or how they'll feel when they receive the text.

If this is the first time you're going to tell them you love them, this is not appropriate for a text message. However, a nice 'good morning', 'good night', 'thinking of you' or 'I miss you' is perfectly acceptable.

*Follow up on text messages

As soon as it is humanly possible, you should always follow up text messages with a phone call or a visit when you are able. Communication dominated by text messaging is not a good idea in a relationship. Relationships need personal contact in order to grow and thrive.

*Keep messages short

Text messaging is a convenience, but long monologues via text in a relationship are bound to annoy your partner if this happens on a continuous basis. Anything more than a handful of text messaging means you should put the keypad down and give them a call!

*Use texting in unforeseen circumstances

Need to send a short message? Great, this is what texting should be about. For instance if you are going to be late, letting your mate know via a short text message is a good idea.

A quick text message can effectively let a person know you aren't standing them up and you're on your way, especially if you're caught up at work or in another environment where a phone call may not be possible. Your mate will appreciate the consideration.

*Answer text messages you receive

While you may not have the ability to answer immediately, try your best to text back within the same day if you are not accessible to talk on the phone.

*Be careful what you say

Anything said in text can be forwarded to an entire contact list

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