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When your best friend becomes your worst enemy

by Universal Cynic

Created on: June 18, 2009   Last Updated: June 21, 2009

When your best friend becomes your worst enemy

It began under the sign of the Scorpion, and it ended under the sign of Death. The scorpion is the sign of death, and of new beginnings, new birth, and new life. The scorpion is the sign of regeneration, reincarnation, and rebirth. That is the tale of how my former best friend and lover became my worst enemy, worse than any of my previous foes and hostilities.

I will not say her name, but I will abbreviate it to A.A. I once combined our names, and it forms the APXH combination, which (I am obsessed with symbols and subliminal messages) forms the famous sign for Christ, the Alpha and Omega (from the Un-Christian Cross). It is the symbol, apparently symbolizes Christ, and ironically, when we met, I fell in love with her, and called our friendship, relative to society and the state as a whole, the, "Christ of the 21st Century." It was eight months ago since we broke up, but it happened. It is ironic, because Christ really did sacrifice himself for the world and humanity, and I sacrificed myself for our friendship and relationship. It came true in such a way that you could not imagine it, but like all other stores on Helium, it is different and similar to everyone's stories of love, hope, and inspiration.

This is my story:

We met in 2004, October at my high school. We were introduced by a friend that I knew through one of my previous former friends (I have had a lot of enemies over the years for many reasons, some my fault, others, not so much). We hung out for two months, before I started to, allegedly, "stalk her." I did. I confess. I was sent to the guidance office, because one of her friends had an issue with me. He hated me anyways, no surprises. What was surprising and even shocking was how gullible she became. She knew I loved her, even though I blatantly lied to her about it when she asked me. It was my fault, but as I teenager, what would you have done?

After that incident, we broke up for about a year, and again, around October 2005, we reconnected. She forgave me. We became really close friends. It was the best few years of my life while I was with her from October 2005 to October 2008, and then another month...brief moment as it was years from then.

At first, through the first half of high school in 2005, I tended to hang out alone, because I refused to get too close to her, and also, to induce to come to my side...I did this by avoiding the cafeteria, and secretly envying her relationship with my

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