by Cyndi Li

Created on: June 12, 2009   Last Updated: June 23, 2009

Remember those pre-parent days when all you had to do was grab the keys jump in the car and you were on your way for a visit with friends or family? Now that baby has arrived it seems as if you've got to bring everything but the kitchen sink in order to be prepared for anything. It really doesn't have to be that complicated. With is little pre-planning before you go and a few helpful strategies when you arrive, a visit at someone else's house can be a joyous time for everyone.

What to bring with you.

The best piece of apparatus you'll need is your trusty diaper bag. What goes into it is just as important. Be sure you've got clean diapers (plenty of them), and a couple of changes of clothing for the little one.

Toss in a few of the baby's favorite toys, an extra pacifier or two, and don't forget the food. Pack some snacks too. Snacks are a great distraction for your baby should she become upset over something. Some teething ointment is a good idea if baby is teething as it a small bottle of Tylenol.

A blanket for baby to lay on, or cuddle with, is also a good choice. Baby will recognize the feel and smell of it and probably not be so apprehensive about being in a new environment. And finally, be sure to bring along plenty of burp clothes. Babies don't care where they are when they throw up.

When you arrive.

If this is the first time baby has visited a new place, expect a little fussing. Babies are most comfortable in familiar environments. Because this is all new to them, they'll probably be clingy to you, and not want to be passed around from person to person. If both parents are present, take turns holding baby until she gets comfortable with her surroundings.

If you're breast feeding but feel uncomfortable around others, ask if you can sit in a different room from everyone else. If you're completely comfortable with public breastfeeding it's only polite to ask the owner of the house if they are comfortable with it as well. You could also pump your breast milk into a bottle and avoid the whole issue.

Passing baby from one person to another may not be a good idea. Your baby is still most comfortable with you and strangers could upset them. Explain your reasoning to your family and friends if you tell them no to holding baby. This will help to avoid any misunderstandings about your decision.

Visiting with a baby isn't always a walk in the park. Like us, children are unique individuals. Some days they may be in a good mood while other times they may just be cranky. Being prepared for whatever they may do will make your visit a much more pleasant one for everyone.

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