by A.L. Lovern

Created on: June 11, 2009   Last Updated: June 17, 2009

For decades people often wonder what makes a marriage work. What does it take to make you marriage last to the "golden anniversary"? I have found ten top tips for wedded bliss. I am almost certain that working these tips into your marriage can help make a long lasting partnership more fulfilling for both partners.

Do you know that arguing is a sign of growth in a marriage? There is arguing in every marriage too much could lead to divorce, but, too little leads to resentment and hidden feelings. But, with a mid point of arguing is a sign that your marriage is growing and is forming a stronger bond. Arguing can be positive it gives both partners the option to express them selves and their emotion hence making the marriage stronger.

Keeping the romance alive is an exceptional tool in keeping the marriage fire aflame. Generally, when people tie the knot they unconsciously give up on romance, or forget to romance their partner. But, romance is what holds a marriage together. Try adding a little romance to your marriage every once in a while to remind your partner why they fell in love with you to begin with. You must have a little romance to keep the flames of marriage burning hot right into the golden years.

Spending quality time together is essential in a marriage. NOW a day people get so busy with family and work they forget to take a few moments out of their day just to be with their spouse. This is harmful to a marriage, every couple needs to try going that extra mile and making some quality alone time together. This is the time where you can just sit quietly together, or just to catch up on whats going on in each others lives. You must make time to be alone with your partner to help reconnect with one another after spending time alone your marriage will strengthen with this technique.

Time apart is essential just as much as time together. Couples who spend all their time together will eventually get bored within the marriage. If their is no outside interaction the marriage will suffer. Couples must have time to their selves or time with other's to unleash frustration of their day on someone other than their spouse. So, make some ample time away from your spouse so you can let go of everyday frustration and go home a healthier, happier you. Your marriage will thank you for this.

I have three simple words for you, "I love you." You will be amazed at the difference these three small words can make in your marriage. Your partner should be reminded that you

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