by Erik Van Tongerloo

Created on: February 03, 2007   Last Updated: November 26, 2009

The old cliche people get married and have children is often the main reason why desperate singles are going too far in the quest of coupledom. Many parents want to teach their children certain values and morals in life and possible they give the impression a married life is a necessity for a happy life. This is certainly not true; it is an individual choice and some may be happy with a single life while others prefer to be married and eventually to have children.

The reason why singles are going too far in the quest of coupledom is often they feel lonely or they feel pushed by others. When singles communicate with other people, they often get the question: Are you married or are you in love with someone? It is also a tradition with New Year if they meet singles to wish them a love or lover. They may not have intended to hurt singles feelings but often singles feel the pressure to marry.

Going too far in the quest of coupledom is always wrong and can have terrible consequences. First of all, singles need to decide if they prefer a single life or if they want to be married. You can perfectly be happy when you are single but possible all your friends are married and you feel lonely when you go to a wedding party, a birthday party, a Christmas party or any other celebration. You need always to come alone while others have their partner.

First of all, you need to decide what you really want. Dating if you really don't want a partner has no sense and even if you should marry in such situation, you will likely be not happy and the chance of a divorce is really high. You don't need to marry because you have the impression that a married life is the only possibility to have a happy life.

It is perfect possible you want to marry and dating can be a good idea. You may never be focused to find immediately a partner and that is a common mistake of many singles who want to find their perfect match immediately. Dating requires time and you need patience. In today's world, there are plenty of options for dating.

You can join dating sites online, you can publish an advertisement in a newspaper or magazine or you can join some single dating groups. Going too far in the quest for coupledom through one of these dating possibilities is you want immediately a too close bond and having sex on your first date may be a bad decision. Love needs to grow and you need patience and take time for getting to know each other.

It may be possible you've noticed someone lost his/her partner.

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