And there is absolutely no need to be stuck in white socks and sneakers all summer - nor do you need to go for the sandals that are only suitable for hiking. The same companies that offer classy comfortable travel clothes have a great selection of good-looking and superbly comfortable leather sandals that would work just fine with a business casual outfit.
Ladies should opt for the fabrics that skim rather than cling, but still ensure that the cut of the garment is flattering to their shape. There is a huge selection of gorgeous colorful wraparound dresses in comfortable summer fabrics - a style that flatters nearly everyone (with the exception of very flat-chested women), by enhancing the neck with that wraparound V, tightening the waist and flaring out over the hips. Many of these dresses come with comfortable roomy sleeves that either go just to the elbow or are three-quarter length - an added bonus for those of us with larger upper arms, because they emphasize the thinnest portion of the arm - the forearm and the wrist.
Pick dresses and blouses with gauzy fluttery sleeves. In addition to disguising a larger arm, they provide much-needed airflow between you and your garment. Make sure that the undergarments you wear are breathable and comfortable - a bra band that cuts into you becomes doubly irritating in sweltering heat. And speaking of bras - find a few good ones that can be worn with their straps cris-crossed - that way you will not have to worry about them sliding out from under the short sleeve or sleeveless tops.
Conventional ladies shoes can also become a problem in the summer - a few hours in a traditional pump, and your toes begin to feel on fire. If you are delicate-boned and your ankles are thin and shapely, strappy sandals are definitely for you. Find a few pairs with a well-shaped stacked heel (high enough for the elegant look yet sturdy and stable enough not to wear you out as stiletto heels do) and be sure to keep your toenails in good shape, considering they'll be on display nearly all summer. For those with thicker ankles - wedges, wedges, wedges galore! Onex makes gorgeous wedge shoes in a variety of colors and styles that are also eminently comfortable. You will barely notice you have them on - and that, of course, is the key property of a truly amazing shoe.
In general, if you are a person of a larger size - a man or a woman - consider having a portion of your budget just for yourself and invest into quality clothes. Yes, they cost more, but they will fit you better, look better and last you longer. Go shopping with someone who is known for his or her dress sense. This may not be the same person you always go with - in fact, your usual shopping buddy might be stuck in as much of a rut as you are. Having someone with a different perspective will help you see yourself in a new way and discover the good points about your figure instead of focusing on (and trying to cover up) the perceived drawbacks. Disregard trends and conventions and focus on you. Who cares if you might look dressier than most? As far as you are concerned, it is everyone else that is under-dressed, and you are perfectly fine.
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