by 1PD1

Created on: June 11, 2009   Last Updated: June 13, 2009

What is Why?

'Why' is something we all ask to get clarification of when we lack an understanding of it. Sometimes our inquiry is satisfied and sometimes it is not. When it is not answered we develop concerns. These concerns arise from within our self. We begin to wonder what is happening to a loved one,
or with a particular situation that might be occurring in our life, just to give a few examples, Most of us will undergo several stages of concern. Some of us can be satisfied with no answer or an incomplete answer to our question "why". Others would like a response from those that should have the answer to the question " why".

Last night I came to a new realization which provided an inner peace. I began to understand that people do not always have an answer to "why". Leaving questions unanswered is something that just makes them feel better. The word "why" has many functions it provides for closure and satisfaction of the answer to a question. The word why also provides for inner peace, What happens when there is no why? What happens when the person that should ask "why" does not. Perhaps there is lack of concern and the person does not care about the situation at hand. The main function of the word "why" is to ask for clarification to the question at hand. Once we get clarification we are satisfied. Many times the answer to the question "why' will give rise to additional questions that require more than a simple "why" explanation.
It can be said that "why" is the root of the start of the solution to many questions.

"Why" helps us to understand our partners in a committed and loving relationship. The word can also lead to heartache and problems that we may not be ready to face and deal with immediately when the question "why"
is asked. Many of us will cry a river over the question word "why" when the word is used in a question with respect to a romantic loving relationship it may cause problems in the relationship and on the other hand it may clear up and solve many problems that may exist within our relationships. All of us have questions that need closure, "why" is the start of the communication necessary for that inner peace and closure we all seek. When we fall in love, many of us do not even realize that we have fallen in love. Once that love begins to fall apart, many of us will feel and understand what is happening. Such that when asked the question "why", the answer to that question will provide the closure will seek. Sometimes the answer is one we expected,

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