by M.A. Dal Cero

Created on: June 10, 2009

Helping your child with his or her homework is relatively easy in the early grades, but it can become increasingly difficult as he or she moves forward in school. What was once a series of simple and enjoyable homework activities in kindergarten, quickly becomes a multitude of more involved assignments that can be challenging for both children and parents alike. Nevertheless, it is our responsibility as parents to offer our children any help they may need with their homework, and to ensure that it is an experience that is as stress-free and productive as possible.

The following are several tips for helping your child with homework:

~ Be patient.

First and foremost, it is essential to remember that you must be extremely patient when helping your child with his or her homework assignments. Some parents make the mistake of losing patience with their children for a variety of homework-related reasons. For example, the child may have difficulty grasping a particular concept, or the parent may not fully understand the child's assignment. In both instances, it may be tempting for the parent to become frustrated, lose patience, or worse, yell at the child. It is important to keep in mind that this type of behavior can be detrimental to a child, and may force him or her to develop a negative view of homework. Homework should never be a battleground between a parent and a child. Rather, children must be reassured that no matter how difficult their homework assignments may be, their parents will always be there to help in a patient, understanding, and loving manner.

~ Create a homework area.

An uncluttered, roomy, and quiet area of the home is the best space for a child and parent to comfortably work on homework assignments together. Make sure that the homework area is organized, and that your child has all the necessary supplies at his or her disposal. The space should be free from any and all distractions in order to create an environment in which both you and your child are able to fully concentrate on the task at hand.

~ Find outside help when needed.

Sometimes, especially when children reach middle and high school, the subject matter may become too difficult for even a parent to understand. If your child's homework in a particular subject surpasses both your level of understanding, and your child's, then it is in everyone's best interest to seek outside help in the form of your child's teacher, or a tutor.

All in all, assisting your child with homework need not be a difficult or frustrating experience. The key to becoming a successful homework-helper lies in your ability, as a parent, to make homework a positive experience for both you and your child. Patience, organization, preparedness, and the humility to know your personal limits is all that is required for you to be a source of true help for your child.

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