by A.L. Lovern

Created on: June 09, 2009   Last Updated: June 11, 2009

There are tons of articles out there telling the signs that your husband is cheating. So, what are the signs that your wife is having an affair.

Unlike most men, women are sneaky, women go to great lengths to conceal an affair. Generally women only get caught cheating if they really want to be caught or because, they told the wrong friend. Would you know the signs to look for? Here are some few suggestive signs that your wife may be straying.

Lack of intimacy is the biggest sign that something is wrong with a relationship. If you and your spouse are not having regular intimate relations, she may be having an affair to fill her sexual desires. All adults need intimate attention, if your wife is less interested in sex with you this is a sign that she is having an extramarital affair.

If your wife starts to go out on the town either alone or with her friends more than usual this is a sign of an affair. Generally women keep the same schedule but, if they start to require extra time without you she may have found another man to spend quality time with. Most women enjoy attention so if they are not getting it at home they tend to look elsewhere for this added attention.

Does your wife get strange phone calls? Yes, just like a man getting those late night phone calls the same rule applies to women. Does she take her calls in the other room? If the answer is yes, she may be hiding the onset of an ongoing affair. Most women are open when chatting on the phone, so if she starts to take calls in private or has too many calls late at night this is a good sign of an affair.

Late nights at the office. Women are vulnerable for office affairs just as a man is. Does she suddenly have more work than normal. Unable to take calls at the office, change her lunch hour routine? These are all classic signs of an affair.

Does your wife call you from the office just to "check in?" The reason for these mid day calls is not just to show her love for you and that your on her mind. This is a classic, mid day calls from the office can mean she just wants to know where you are. If she knows where you are then their is less chance you will "pop" in on her and her lover.

Has she had a change in appearance? Does she suddenly start worrying about her hair and makeup more than normal. This is a sure sign that she is getting all "dolled" up for someone outside the marriage. A married woman does take her appearance serious but, if she has to have perfect hair and makeup to go to the corner market and work something may be amiss.

These are just a few common signs that your wife may be having an affair. I always say that the signs we use to determine a mans affair are the almost exact signs for a woman. So, if you suspect your spouse of having an affair do your own detective work and catch them in the act. No one deserved to be cheated on.

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