by Monda Mahmoud

Created on: June 07, 2009

A Million Little Things

One truth in the middle of everything else shaded; a world full of shades of grey amidst all that black and white. Friendship will never be overrated.

Friends. We make them. We literally do that. We choose who we want to be friends with. We even decide how close and intimate we want this friendship to be. Friends are our own choice. There's something about freedom of choice here that just speaks volumes. Not in a cliche kind of way, but in a sense that is amazingly good, heartwarming and comforting. We choose our friends.

Remember your school days? The years of growing pains. We were just a little bunch of happy-go-merry kids, without a care in the world. We had our braids, hideous glasses, embarrassing braces, cute dimples, ridiculous crushes and a collection of bizarre toys and games, among other childish things. In our minds, we had everything we needed. I am not exaggerating - everything. Not because of our young innocent minds believing that's all we need, but because we had our very own BFF. Best Friend Forever. That one person we spend every waking moment of the day in school with. We'd sit together in class, eat lunch together from almost identical lunch boxes, play every sport together, join the same extracurricular clubs, share stories and gossip, talk, smile, laugh, cry, jump and scream together. We'd hang out at each other's places every chance we got. We know the inside of our BFF's house just as we did our own. Most of our memories in school revolve around our BFF. We were inseparable. We did everything together. We made promises we believed we could keep, in spite of anything, in the face of everything. We promised to always be best friends forever.

And some of us did. Some of us remain friends. I do know of people, who have friends they've known since kindergarten, or school, friends they grew up together with as neighbours, or as close family friends. I'm still friends myself with a few from school. That friendship is priceless to say the least - friends from the good old days. The ones who know you better in some ways than you know yourself. Friends who would tell you what you won't tell yourself. Friends who give you the proverbial shoulder to cry on, and are the ones you want to share and celebrate every insignificant piece of news you have with first. You can count on them to be there for you at all times, be it happy, delightful, miserable or sad. They are exceptionally precious friends. You can go days and weeks

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