by Mariel

Created on: June 04, 2009

Loving a person means that you accept everything he has and he is; falling in love with someone is something far deeper than what you might actually believe it is. For many, love is the chemical interaction that comes because of the interaction of all the senses: Looking at the person, smelling their particular and unique scent; hearing his or her voice and feeling the warmth of their touch or skin.

But the human race is a constant evidence of evolution; of adapting to a new environment and a new way of life; the internet has provided a new and wider spectrum of people to meet, friends to make and love to find. Consequently, people do not limit themselves to meeting those who live nearby; the borders of the countries are slowly disappearing and turning into something that has vanished not only because of the internet but because there are easier and more accessible means of transportation. Flying has slowly become cheaper since each day more, more airplane companies appear, and governments reduce and make the process to enter their country a lot more accessible and visitor friendly.

As such, people will meet a bigger number of people that have similar preferences and lifestyles; with such amicability it is easy for the feeling of love to sprout, encouraging the lonely and the picky to meet and fall in love. Yet even though these relationships are created with similar-personalities, sometimes they will succumb to the distance and difference in time zones as well as the normal problems that any other relationship has.

In such occasions, the break up will be even more problematic than what happens in those relationships when both of the people involved are able to meet face to face. So it is important that the members of the relationship are able to set in advance, preferably from the very start of the relationship some safe way in which they will be able to terminate their relationship. Much like a safe word, this particular manner will be designed and focused on providing a less hurtful end to a relationship than what would be experienced by the participants in any other manner.

However, there is a definite problem with internet relationships, and that is the problem that is caused by life on the other side of the monitor in each end of the same relationship. People who are committed to a relationship, even when the relationship is flowing along nicely will still have to go out and move around their own environment, take the bus, drive

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