by love always

Created on: June 04, 2009

The real reason women get married

This will not be your typical romantic article of all the reasons a woman will decide to enter a marriage contract. The global increase of the annual divorce rate should be a signal to the world that other motives prevail for entering the contractual marriage agreement. The need for poignant honesty comes with the knowledge that many will be deeply offended. Yet only through honesty can awareness be achieved and a different course of action can be decided upon. Yielding results of wisely choosing a wife capable of fulfilling the honorable intent of marriage; a life long companionship filled with true love.

Over the course of 60 years the collective perspective of women has shifted from one of service and charity within her family life, to personal and self fulfillment of her own. With the degradation of finding achievement and personal value in home and family management, the whole of society has suffered numerous consequences. Young women are being raised without the knowledge required to sufficiently maintain a marriage. Parents have become complacent in providing discipline and instruction required for real life. Often times daughters are perceived as so cute and adorable, that they need only bat their eye lashes to receive their hearts desire. From the perspective of a child raised in such an environment, it is understandable that their confusion is met with repetitive negative experiences as they journey into the world. From the beginning of life, the appreciation received for the work required of a wife was never taught. So, how could it possibly be understood?

In consequence society has created a generation of women who have had to use their own misguided instincts in order to survive. Acting from a lack of awareness, women manipulate a man using good looks, using a sweet temperament for a short duration, using anything that they might possess in order to attract a man. Upon entering the marriage and a short term bliss, the true character of the woman is revealed. The natural reversion to childhood raising is to be expected. As through out life a longevity of reinforcing positive behavior has never been substantial enough to overcome prior teaching. Only through a woman's personal acknowledgement and desire to better herself for her marriage, can past behavior become truly apart of the past. Being a difficult undertaking, many women continue on with what is most natural. Through consequence of woman's most natural actions within life, a misconception then ensues of husband spousal abuse. Yet, by all rights it is the man who is being abused.

When a woman does not receive what she requires by merely bating her eye lashes, she raises her voice to her husband. This is abuse. When a woman refuses to do the house work and the cooking yet asks for money, this is abuse. When a woman does not make love to her husband, this is abuse. By natural consequence, a man should desire divorce. Yet, when a man loses all he has worked for through divorce proceedings - this is not abuse. This is criminal.

What is todays primary motivation for a woman to enter a contractual marriage agreement? That is easy. Survival and personal self fulfillment with the end result of receiving free money. As a woman I am ashamed. It is enough to consider becoming a divorce lawyer in order to defend the rights of the greater species. Yet, I am a true house wife when being a true house wife isn't cool. And, I know my place...

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The next article will be: " The signs and symptoms of the potential wife vampire"

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