by Rob Purifoy

Created on: June 03, 2009   Last Updated: June 05, 2009

The nuns and priests of the world say that sex only takes their attention away from serving their father. But for the rest of us humans, specifically men, common folklore would tell us that men think about sex every 7-15 seconds. Of course this is wholly unverified and depends on the person, but I'm working toward a point here. Depending on the person it may be a few times a day or once a week.

Case 1. Increased attention thinking skills;

If we think of sex so often, could it mean that we experience a lack of attention about other things if our desire goes unsatisfied? Many have experienced an after sex "glow" and it not only makes their day happier but more productive and attentive to other tasks at work or home. Other people sometimes also notice the "glow" ( some call it sex drunk ) as it's been joked about in many workplaces and among friends. We used to joke about sex, or lack thereof, as high school kids when a teacher came in with that glow, or conversely was in a terrible mood and gave us a pop quiz. On pop quiz days the comment was always " gees they didn't get any last night".

Case 2. Intimacy and sharing;

Sex is one on one time, ( well for most, but this is speaking traditionally ) and it shows passion, love, compassion and interest in the other. It's the one time that two people come together with the sole intention of satisfying each other, paying undivided attention and or course, releasing stress.

Case 3. Physical health

Aside from the study's that say it lowers blood pressure, opens airway's and increases lung capacity, it's a great weight loss and exercise tool as well. Whatever the case, it certainly can't be a bad thing, and that's good enough for most. There are enough studies out there but who knows for sure if it's a legitimate cure for prostate cancer or if it increases lifespan or boosts the immune system, etc. But again, it can't hurt just in case

Case 4. Decreased amount of break up's and divorce;

Many relationships end with the lack of intimacy, communication, and of course, sex, not necessarily in that order. It is sometimes the case that everything may fall into place in a relationship but because sex is not part of the equation, the amount of frustration can end the relationship.

Case 5. Well Being and emotional health;

As eluded to earlier regarding the "glow". It's possible that depression can be warded off, increased blood flow can relieve headaches and have a calming effect. The rush of pleasure may be enough for anyone but the lasting benefits, both recognizable, and subconscious may be yet another benefit to sex.

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