by JT Roberts

Created on: June 02, 2009   Last Updated: June 30, 2009

The magnetic appeal lure of the sexually appealing is a combination of physical attractiveness and personal qualities that arouse others sexually. Elements of appearance, symmetrical features, style and charm accompanied with a humble dose of inner light is magic. Substance and beauty are valuable commodities when it comes to sex appeal. Being confident, brainy and chic adds a bit of extra spice.

It's a combination of attitude along with numerous little idiosyncrasies scientists still haven't been able to identify. During ovulation women are more attracted to strong masculine features. At other times they are attracted to softer male qualities. Women look for different inner characteristics and personality traits when seeking casual sex verses a mate for marriage.

Individuals feeling devilishly naughty hoping for a sweltering one-night-stand want electrifying chemistry. Looking for a marriage partner requires a healthy amount of substance, intelligence, caring, respect, integrity and honesty. Physical beauty alone can't take you the distance. Back up your physical appeal with emotional intrigue. Don't be afraid to flirt, be a little sassy and bold. Without charisma, sexual appeal lasts about 15 minutes.

Truly confident individuals are humble people. They don't put on airs about lifestyles, incomes or fancy jobs. They are genuine radiating an authentic aura. Honesty suits their personalities. An entire room's attention can be caught by a persona without deliberate attempt. Sex appeal modestly flows with quiet elegance. Sexually appealing individuals are oblivious to the clandestine inherent ability to lure others. They are lovely in conversation drawing people in using witty amusement of sincerity.

Sex appeal also holds trinkets of gesture. It's a beautiful swaggering walk, bright shining eyes, and a warm welcoming smile. These individuals move with the fluidity of a dancer when handling hors devours or tipping their wine glasses. Appealing people can captivate with a glance. Their touch makes you feel warm, safe or calms the nerves because it's real. Sex appeal doesn't require tremendous beauty. It comes from within...

My parents believe I was born sexually appealing. I captivated the delivery staff straight from my mother's womb. Little did they know I was going to be such a witty devil! I have found sex appeal both a blessing and a curse. In The early years of elementary school, I was teased by other children. I didn't understand- the sex appeal is primitive. I've never thought about sex appeal or how to get a person's attention. It happens without contemplation.

I'm currently a grown woman with lure, and still find it a blessing and a curse. Sex appeal can make the other person in a relationship experience confusing emotions because of the allure. The sexually appealing need total acceptance from their partners. Including the agreement others are drawn because of the sex appeal. Not because they are seeking attention.

Oh, the little idiosyncrasies infused inside sex appeal mixing a tonic for all to enjoy as an intoxication of pleasure...

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