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Do women want sex as much as men do

by JT Roberts

Created on: May 31, 2009   Last Updated: June 02, 2009

Do women want sex as much as men? The answer, "You better believe it!" Discovery Channel ran a series on sex appeal. Contrary to popular myth, women are the more promiscuous species. Women ovulating have the highest rate of promiscuity, especially when in a relationship. These are the women you will find revealing the most skin while sending the most sexual signals through movement. There are 40 percent of women that say they have never fully enjoyed sex. Can this be changed? With women becoming more open about their sexuality, I think there is a good chance.

Women have sex at their disposal 24/7, which allows them to be more selective about when, where and with who they are going to have sex. Women in general love sex, love talking about sex and think about sex more often than admitting. Of course, sexual drive differs between individuals making it difficult to say what is normal. Studies have shown women having sex more than twice a week are most satisfied with their sex lives. They are also more likely to reach orgasm and masturbate on a regular basis. These women understand their own bodies better, making it easier to teach their partners how to please.

Many women have never reach orgasm or rarely reach orgasm causing a disinterest in sexually engaging with their partner. If a woman doesn't have an interest in sex, her partner is most likely not hitting the spots that drive her wild. Western civilization along with the biological make up of the male ego has thought us the subject is inappropriate to discuss. Contrary to popular belief, communicating openly about sex leaves potential to ignite a spark. These amusing conversations can unlock an entirely new sexual world for many men.

Women enjoy feeling sexy. A man flirting with a woman makes her feel more desirable. Unfortunately, much of this activity disappears when women are in relationships. Flirty, playful moments should be incorporated into the daily routines of every couple. Remember the days of getting her in the mood? Having fun, laughing is a magnificent advantage to setting the perfect mood for sexual play in bed. There's nothing more exciting than a man being sexually spontaneous. Clear off the dining room table for dessert!

The sexier a man makes a woman feel, the more he will arouse her desire to please him sexually. Worship her every feminine feature. Buy her a piece of beautiful lingerie you'd love to see her wear. Satisfying her emotional and intellectual desires increase your chance for more experimental sex. When a woman feels safe, she is more likely to open up and explore new sexual adventures.

Sex is meant to be fun with both people being pleased before the gyration ends. Women need foreplay, it makes them climax easier. For women, sex is emotional not just physical. Stimulating your woman emotionally means more intense orgasms. Women are also more likely to have multiple orgasms when there is a strong emotional connection associated with the physical attraction.

Personally, I enjoy sex almost everyday, if not several times a day. It's difficult if you have kids at home, but there is always a way for creative sex. When I'm not in a relationship, I generally masturbate at least three times a week. I often fantasize about what sex would be like with a stranger that has caught my eye. Yes, I enjoy talking about sex, having sex and thinking about sex, as much as men. Yes, I'm a woman that loves sex!

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