by Jake Betz

Created on: May 30, 2009

This question is akin to asking: Should blow horns be allowed in restaurants? That would yield universal agreement. Of course not. In close quarters, blow horns are like the proverbial fingernail on the blackboard. Using a blow horn within a few short feet of the nearest diner, likely a total stranger, would amount to pure cloddishness of the highest order.

Well, cell phones in restaurants are every bit as annoying, and obnoxious ring tones make them even more so. There's nothing more disturbing then to be suddenly bombarded with a chorus of "I Love Big Butts and I Do Not Lie," when you're all set to make short work of your veal scaloppini.

People who allow their cell phones to go off in restaurants lack any modicum of courtesy and consideration for others. These blatant exhibitionists are saying to the world, "Look at me. I'm important, I'm popular." Then they make certain to talk in loud enough voices so that practically everyone in the same state is bound to overhear the conversation.

Restaurants should ban ringing cell phones, and then actively enforce the ban, without exception. Patrons should be forewarned, through signs at the entrance and on the menus, that ringing cell phones are not allowed in the dining area. Then, when violations occur, transgressors should be ushered off the premises. Yes, the establishment might lose that customer forever, but it would be cementing the good will and future patronage of everyone else.

Frequenting a restaurant involves much more than eating a meal. You can always chow down or at a fast-food place. Quality of food and the leisurely atmosphere make for a full dining experience. You cannot possibly relax and enjoy the experience when someone at the next table boorishly insists on being noticed.

Obviously, cell phones cannot be banned entirely. Modern-day realities make it important for each of us to be "reachable." Some people, such as physicians, emergency responders and public officials, have to be available on a moment's notice to respond to unexpected crises. But even more, we all want to be accessible to family members and close friends in case of emergencies or changes in plans.

Placing a cell phone on "vibrate" fills this legitimate need without disturbing others' tranquility. The recipient of the call can quickly look at the phone to identify the caller, and then either quietly hold a phone conversation in the restaurant or exit to the lobby or outdoors if a more spirited dialogue is needed. If the call is not urgent, the phone is quickly put away and a return call made later. Consideration of others goes a long way in improving the quality of life for everyone.

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