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Reflections: Do we all lie about sex

by JT Roberts

Created on: May 29, 2009

LITTLE WHITE LIES ABOUT SEX

In one form or another, many of us do lie about sex. Sexual fantasies and explorations are part of adult interactions many individuals keep hidden in the closet.

Women viewed as sexually promiscuous by men may find themselves settling for less desirable life mates. Because we want to secure the most powerful mate, we often lie about the number of sexual partners we've experienced.

One major factor in failing intimate relationships is the lure of virtuous women involved with promiscuous men. The woman is conservative, while the man is spontaneous. Over time, the spark unavoidably starts to smolder. Desires imbalance is too weighted for a valiant triumph. The house has dealt the cards against this couple. The little white lies will soon begin...

What girl doesn't love dishing on her best friend's secret frolic with Tom, mega handsome buff boss sporting million dollar luxuries? They're both working late under the faint hew of desk lamps, the sweet and sour aromas of boxed Chinese delicacies, musty clothing sticking to sweat ridden skin ignites stress induced lust. A brush of her breast against his arm makes them spontaneously combust. Clearing the desk with the swipe of an arm, his masculinity takes her into a world of wild ecstasy. Blending into the office air is a musk smell of fresh sex. Married, single or with a significant other, what woman wouldn't have drank from the golden chalice? Who will ever suspect one tiny slip? They were working late...

Guys can enjoy an afternoon golfing bragging about sexual interludes with dirty girls, while women talk about the well endowed trainer over coffee. We still haven't learned how to have these open conversations with our sexual partners. It's easier for a woman to indulge in a game of toy play achieving multiple orgasms than bother with her partner. He doesn't quite get her there, she fakes the orgasm and he blows completely unsatisfied. Although he doesn't really know why, he feels her un-satisfaction. Not talking about the lack of your man's skills as a lover and her lack of adventure puts a big white elephant in the intimate bedroom.

He wants her to be kinky, naughty, dirty and filthy fun. She wants him to learn about hitting the right spots for orgasms. Instead they are both left frustrated. He turns to strip clubs and porn for kinky relief. She turns to the toy box. Eventually, the sexual tension escalates; an office party finds her making out in a broom closet

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