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Explanations of the fear of being loved

What can I say? A part of me desire to be in love with a man, yet, the other half of me fear love. A couple bad experience in a relationship forces me to run away from love. every time I take one step forward, I'm taking several steps backward. From my own personal experience in life. It's hard for me to love and trust a man, some time I wonder to myself, "will I spend my whole life, afraid to be in love". With too many men of my past, that left bad impressions upon me as a child. I grew up finding it very hard to trust and love a man.

I'm yet still human as a woman, I have the same desire that any other woman may possess. The desire to be held love and understood, without being judge harshly when I have emotions waves, that even I don't understand. At least I expect a man to attempt to understand how I may be feeling at that moment in my life. When a woman whom had suffer abuse in her life, its hard to trust and to allow any man to love you. He must truly earn your trust and love. If a man isn't willing to be patience with you, then hes not going to be a good candidate for you.

A woman that's been through childhood abuse is like a little lamb shaken, and weary about trusting the Shepherd. The Shepherd must ease himself toward the frighten lamb and show her that he is safe. A woman must feel safe and feel like it okay to reveal to a man her good, bad and ugly side to her, in order for a man to accept all of her. Why, should a woman have to walk around pretending to be happy when she's not?

I believe that if anyone desire to be love, we must start at the core. The core me to is a person spirit, finding out the spiritual side to a man or woman first. We as human being are three dimensional being, we have a flesh outer layer, the soul- which is the mind, emotion and will, and our spirit. Too many people attempt to get to know another person from a one dimension only the outer fleshly being. The physical attraction, but I feel that if you're desiring a more profound relationship. We must work our way from the inside out. Starting with the spirit- a believer in God can't become equally yoke with a non-believer. The two are headed in the opposite direction on a spiritual level. Having a common spiritual belief is a start I feel. The I feel that its very important to love and romance a person mind and emotion.

Opening up yourself to someone else way of thinking without being judgemental, How can any truly know someone,

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