by True Blue

Created on: May 23, 2009   Last Updated: May 30, 2009

Sex is very dynamic and often extremely complicated in its entirety.

If you had asked me for ten reasons why was sick of sex a few years ago, I would have laughed out loud and looked at you like you were an alien, or some sub human species without the ability to appreciate the many subtleties and joys of coition. Sex to me used to be like my favourite hobby. Something I could get into for a few hours of unadulterated pleasure, gorge myself on as much fun as I could possibly stretch my love muscle to, and then when spent, get back to the monotony of my very normal life. A variety in partners kept me interested, so I can only assume that the lack of it can make you very sick of it indeed.

It's like the icing on the cake, and soon becomes the ultimate game in which most of us have no choice but to excel. It is either do it and do it well, or not bother at all. Finding the opposite sex was never too difficult, the selection of my playmate for the night was a little tricky, and often involved a sane and realistic judgement of the playing field I found myself in, before diving in. Then it was all about the chase and if we are all honest with ourselves, you'd say, that's the best bit. The conquest itself if a matter routine, unless those sparks really fly, and then like a chocolate gateau, you just got to have another slice.

Every now and then we fall in lust and became very dedicated to one partner until the sex slowly but surely tapers off into arguments, lies, deceit and if not the next conquest, a white wedding.

Maturity slows most people down eventually, normally into a more appreciative human being. Time too changes the situation as we age, due to the simple demand for sex being met by the younger studs in the playing field, casual partners and sex becomes less frequent.Thoughts of settling down with someone nice become prevalent and dominate periods of loneliness. Then if you're lucky you meet that someone special and fall in love.

Actually falling in love with someone has a tendency to put people from all walks of life through an emotional mill, where feelings can become so intense that nothing else in life matters. The necessity to find someone you have a lot in common with, and can accept as a friend, is imperative, especially when the sex fizzes out. Most of us need someone who understands that relationships require work, and can offer the close companionship needed to fill the gaps left by the "Rampant Bunnies" routine. Which leads us to one

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