by Kamelia Morgan

Created on: May 21, 2009   Last Updated: May 22, 2009

Maintaining a long distance relationship can be psychologically and emotionally exhausting. It is essential for this scenario, that all communication lines be open, and also that both individuals and not only one person is committed to each other and the development of that promise. Being apart from one's partner is a test: It is a test of honesty, loyalty, love and commitment. Though long distance love is not for everyone, for others it has proven beneficial to the success and strengthening of their bond. Being away from your mate helps you to adjust to written and telephone communications. Though you are limited to just these, you will be able to visualize each other's dedication and determination towards the success of the relationship. One should remain steadfast, resilient and headstrong, when combating the struggles and trials one may encounter during this undertaking.

Every one of us needs to make our own mistakes so as to learn and grow into improved and experienced individuals. The experiences of another, does not substantiate or justify the outcome of what one's own experiences may entail. Going through hardship sometimes will determine who is left standing in the end; as there is no success without tribulation, no obstacle conquered without unity. Partners in this position need to unite and remind themselves that they are going though the trials, yes, but they are doing it together, as one. It takes much effort on both individuals part in order for a relationship to evolve and both persons have to be ready and on stand-by to make the sacrifices which will aid them into obtaining a fruitful partnership.

My husband went to Iraq for 2 years; two tours back to back. I was by myself, I felt alone and lonely almost all the time. He called me every day he was in Iraq; I started to wonder isn't there a war in Iraq, how come he calls me so often? We corresponded through telephone and email and we talked about things we never able to construe when we were in each other's presence. But still, that wasn't enough for me. I wanted to see him. The day came when he finally came home, and I was thrilled. But after a while I started to realize that the person who left was not the person who came back. Yes, we were able to communicate very well to each other, but I also learnt things about him while we were apart that I wish I did not discover. But I am glad that we separated, it gave me a chance to get to know his heart and it gave him a chance to know mine- our

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