by Linda Sajiw

Created on: May 17, 2009

If you are having sex with one person while thinking of another on a regular basis then to put it frankly you are with the wrong person. What you are really doing is scattering your sexual energy.

Thoughts like everything else have energetic blueprints. When you think of someone else your energy is going to that person and that person at the same time comes closer to you. This is because we are always looking at different facets of ourself. Wherever we have put those aspects of ourself as separate we will be looking to others.

An example of this is the man or woman who is looking to the opposite sex to fulfill the role of the masculine or feminine principle for them. When this is seen as separate from them then what they are doing is creating an energetic attachment to that person that represents that principle for them. This also goes for anyone that does this with any person in their life.

Also when having sex with someone you are mixing energies with them for both of you are made up of more than just your physical bodies. Each of you has thought forms and experiences that have shaped your bodies and brought you to where you are in your life. This is also what you are mixing with when you have sex with a partner.

If you are thinking of one person when having sex with someone else then you are not really in a partnership with yourself or the one you are having sex with. The one you are having sex with is in the same position. This is the key to why so many relationships split up.

There are aspects of who we are that can act independently of our outer consciousness. If it's your personality choosing a type of partner then this is what happens. Everything in your aura, chakra and body systems is evolving or degenerating according to where you are living your life from.

If you know who you are intellectually or on more of a spiritual level of being but are not following or integrating those levels of being with your physical self then what you will be doing unconsciously is creating an entanglement or what could be called an etheric triangle.

This is what happens increasingly in this world because we are in times of accelerated change. We must become more identified with our spiritual self, integrating our Soul Light Design in this world. If we are just feeding a relationship from our physical being without engaging the relationship with our own soul's blueprint then what is happening is the people doing this just parrot every body else. Their unique voice

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