{it just isn't easy single mothers do you feel me} a mother is one a father is many its your first job to be a mother or shall i say your life job i sit back and think when my mother would tell me I'm your mother I'm always going to be there your father is a man his love is never going to be the same as mine and in the back of my mind i would say she wish.....but now i think its not that he didn't or don't love me the same is that he is a man and they will stray......as a single mother raising my child alone her father loves her to death yet he has moved on to do his life and i take on our daughters daily life the school, the days when she is sick the bed time stories etc.... its hard to to so many things for your child or children when your all alone and trying to also maintain your home men think money is the key but the truth is we need our time to breath ....its ruff raising a child alone with no back bone to be able to call on we don't have time to get sick there is no lay in the bed with a fever cause then who will feed them who will see them off to school..its our position to do so daily but man its hard and then they wounder why us woman are always on guard.....

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