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Fear of being loved comes from imprinting and cell memory. The essence of who you are is love. It is your natural expression in life. If as a child you went to express your natural voice that comes from your heart and got told to shut up or got smacked on the head by someone then you might become afraid to do it again.

Of course to a child adults are like giants and gods. When someone has this repeated over and over by people that big the tendency is to say whatever is necessary to avoid being slammed by the bigger person's anger and physical prowess.

This creates patterns with the brain, body, emotions and many other layers that make up our multi-bodied system. We have many physical conditions that are created out of fear. Every condition starts with a belief that has been formed because we have not been received when we have expressed the love that radiates from our core being.

Is it that someone is afraid of being loved or that they are afraid of being love? When someone is in fear of being loved by a particular person whoever it is has triggered a cell memory of the person experiencing fear. That person may be someone that displays characteristics of a key figure from the past.

In this case a person has two options. One is to deflect the person offering the love. This is the response of the ego personality that sees itself as separate from the love being offered. A key point to remember is that we will only be able to give and receive love from the level we are giving and receiving love to ourselves. If our ego is running our life then we will be magnetic to another limited ego personality. We will actually be living in the memories of past experiences we have had while expressing love.

The other option is to receive the person from a place of love while feeling the fear. In this way we are transmuting fear into love while giving each other the freedom to be and evolve in our own ways. We then let go of being the judge of a person and their fear patterns. This means being able to see the shadow element in ourself and others and begin to transform it by identifying with the infinite love consciousness that is our essence. We then start to live from a Soul perspective.

Most conflicts come from a lack of connection with our Soul and purpose. Our purpose being the way we are to express love in the world. When we are able to live from this connection with our Soul's blueprint all we have to do is check "in" to see and "know" the appropriate

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