by Dawn Hawkins

Created on: May 08, 2009

Finding the one that you love enough to spend the rest of your life with shouldn't mean putting up with some things. There are certain types of men that women should never consider marrying.

Here is a list of ten of those types of men:

Cheater

If you have caught this man cheating, you should run, not walk, away from him. If he is known to cheat in previous relationships, what is to stop him now. Things do happen sometimes and people that normally wouldn't cheat find themselves in that exact situation. However, if the man that you want to marry has done it more than one time you should re-think marrying him. If he has cheated in your relationship before you get married, that's a warning sign. Heed it. It really isn't worth the cost in the end.

Controller

Finding yourself in a situation that he likes to control what you do, you need to get away from the relationship and never marry such a man. A man that likes to control your actions now will be even worse when you get married. You may see him as a caring man right now, but when you get married and live with it for many years, you will find yourself in a situation that you don't want to be in.

Physical Abuser

A man that has physically abused anyone, ever, is definitely someone that you should extract yourself from immediately. This is a dangerous situation and not worth what it could cost you. If he has ever laid a hand on you, the police should be involved, not a preacher. Get away from him now!

Non-worker

A man that won't work isn't worth having. A man should take pride in himself and his ability to work hard to earn a living. If he won't work hard to get the things he wants or needs then he won't work hard in the marriage to make it work. If he doesn't have a job or the ability to keep one, get away from him, at least until he proves himself. The thought of living on love is great but it doesn't really work that way. If a man doesn't take pride in taking care of his family, then he doesn't deserve to be married.

Drug/Alcohol Abuser

These guys can be a lot of fun, at first. Going out and having a couple of drinks every now and then isn't what we are talking about here. If a man is addicted to drugs or alcohol it only makes sense to stay away from him. Substance abuse often leads to physical abuse later on. It can also lead to verbal abuse. Although these things may not happen, the chances are that they will. Alcohol and other drugs is a mind altering situation that can also

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