by Angela S. Young

Created on: May 07, 2009

Family values strengthen families, so how do we strengthen family values? Maybe the reader has never even thought consciously about this question, but all of us have an inate understanding of the importance of family values. Family values, the values shared by a family or even families, bind family together and strengthen the bonds between them. The following discusses some ways we can strengthen our family values and thus strengthen our family.

Traditions...

The observance and creation of family traditions helps strengthen family values. An outsider can easily determine a family's values by watching them observe their family traditions. These traditions draw families together, if only for a meal, and provide great opportunities for adults to pass on the importance of tradition in strengthening their family.

Does the family enjoy being together and take special steps to make sure they have regular time together? This teaches the next generations the value that family gatherings are important. Does the family spend time playing together, whether board games, athletics or just horsing around? This teaches the value of families having fun together and enjoying one another's company. Does the family spend time discussing spiritual things? This teaches the importance of the family's fundamental religions beliefs.

Do unto others...

The golden rule, do unto others as you would have them do unto you, personifies mutual respect, a family value worth having. By showing respect to your family members and expecting respect from them as well, you strengthen the family bond of trust. This also teaches the next generation to treat one another well and set respect boundaries for themselves. Teach by example and then spend time talking about it with your family members as teachable moments arise. This value probably underlies the rest and creates a base of trust and respect on which to continue building family values.

If we do unto others as we would like done to ourselves, we learn to respect others wishes and needs. We also learn to compromise, encourage and help out or fellow family members. The child has to learn to think from the other person's point of view and find a way to peacefully and respectfully find solutions to disagreements. This helps us build family values without imposing on others.

Grab the teachable moments...

As life happens, opportunities present for those teachable moments when adults can use an incident to share and strengthen

• 1
• 2
• Next Page >>