Search Helium

Home > Relationships & Family > Communication > Communication (Other)

How to flirt online

by Brittnee Dunning

Created on: May 05, 2009

So on-line dating is defiantly the newest craze and everyone and your grandma seem to be doing it, but how exactly do you let someone know you are interested? By flirting of course which can sometimes be more difficult than flirting in person. I am here to help you learn a few ways to flirt on-line. Well here are some great tips for flirting on-line.

1. Casual Chit Chat - Of course casual chit chat can just be casual chit chat but a way to make it into flirting is by kind of turning it around to sound like you're interested in more than just talking. Taking something like "It was so hot out today" and turning into "It was so hot today I almost went to work naked" a little blunt but when people can't really hear your tone or see your facial expressions it's important to be a little more blunt.

2. Making Things Personal - When people are not talking face to face it is easier to say things you normally wouldn't. So getting down to more personal subjects can be flirting in a way. You can easily joke about things that embarrass you like saying "... and everyone in the office saw my underwear" someone could flirt back by saying " I'd like to see your underwear laugh out loud" by making a joke out of it it is flirting but not too serious in case the other person gets freaked out.

3. Dirty Talk - A lot of people are doing the dirty right on-line. All it is is saying things you would like to do to each other without actually doing it. This may offend some people but I would say it is defiantly a way of flirting on-line. It is a way of letting someone know you are into more than just friends. The best part is you can't get pregnant from it!

4. More Than Typing - You can always move your relationship away from just typing by maybe if you trust the person calling them up. It is way easier to flirt if they hear the tone of your voice. It doesn't have to go straight to the phone. You could just send normal pictures of yourselves to each other and compliment them on how they look.

I hope these helped some people out there. There are many different ways and styles of flirting on-line these are just a few, and these are just from a young persons perspective. You just have to test things out and find your own style of flirting. It's not always going to be easy and even if you embarrass yourself you don't even have to ever talk to them again if you don't want, because there is always that little button called ignore.

Learn more about this author, Brittnee Dunning.
Click here to send this author comments or questions.

Helium Debate

Cast your vote!

Are white lies acceptable?

Click for your side.

102314

Featured Partner

Appleseed

Appleseed, a nonprofit network of 16 public interest justice centers in the United States and Mexico, uncovers and corrects social injustices through legal, legislative and market-based structural reform. Appleseed and Appleseed Centers ...more


CONNECT WITH US

Read
our blog
Helum for writers

Write and get published
Share with other writers
Polish your freelancing skills

Join our active writing community
Helium Content Source for Publishers

Quality articles from proven freelancers
Exclusive rights, fast turnaround
Brand engagement, business blogging -- our writers do it all

Get custom content today!

INFORMATION


Helium, Inc.
200 Brickstone Square Andover, MA 01810 USA
#