by Eugene Pitout

Created on: May 04, 2009

In recent years the concept of creating your reality and the "law of attraction" has gained some popularity amongst many of us. Many people are now trying it out for themselves. Where they have always been doing it unconsciously they are now trying to do it consciously. Some find amazing results while others fail miserably and then they come to people like me and they want to know why it does not work for them.

I have come to realize that because of the spiritual way I lived my life there are many things I take for granted. The common mistake was my perception is that everyone had the life I had and thus everyone is living from the inside out in the same way that I am. Mistakenly I often told people to do this technique or to try some practice that will work in time. But lately I realized this is not a wholly holistic approach to the situation. There are other factors to be considered that can open or close doors to conscious manifestation.

After a few years of considering this I realized that they can all be summarized in unconditional love. Abraham Hicks in its teaching on universal laws say that learning law of attraction is the easiest part to learn when you aim to do conscious manifestation. The most difficult law to master as a human being according to Abraham is the law of allowance. Now what is this law of allowance when you really think about it?

Law of allowance is to allow. That's simple enough but think it through. It is to allow everyone and everything to be what it is. Well why is it so difficult then? I suppose because it is in your face all the time. Can you allow someone to challenge your identity? If someone calls you stupid, can you allow that person to do that? I mean that person is only being who they are. Can you allow them to be that even if what they are being is contradicting your identity?

You see this is the issue because once you come to peace with allowing you also became one who can accept unconditionally. Unconditional acceptance is the doorway to unconditional love. Unconditional love is free flowing. It is an energy that flows through you like a light. You are like a light bulb, a distributor of that light and that light is the energy that manifests the miracles we crave to see in our lives. That light combined with our thinking collapses into what we call "reality" Now you can think and think as much as you like. "I want a house" "I want a lover" "I want a car" but without that energy it might take a long time for this to happen, and the longer it takes the more time you have to doubt it and thus cancel your manifestation out through doubtful thinking.

When you have envy or jealousy or even competition you are not really allowing. The world within is the world without so when you won't allow your neighbor his happiness you are also closing the door on your own happiness. Rather use his happiness as a confirmation to you that you can have yours too. Everyone deserves everything and whether you like them or not has nothing to do with it. When you realize this you open doors in you for creative energy and allowance to flow to you and through you and you find the fulfillment of your desires become more apparent.

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