by Godfather

Created on: May 01, 2009

Pleasing a man can vary. There's different ways to please a guy. Obviously the very simple and easy way is sex. All guys want it, all guys think about it. If you ask me, this is a cheap tactic that can't maintain a strong and lasting relationship. Naturally sex is an important ingredient in the relationship. Being physical with your partner is important to keep your man happy, but I'm not convinced guys are as simple as some seem to think. They are simpler than women, that is true. But if sex was truly the only way to please the guy, wouldn't women be out numbered in being able to stand alone? If sex was simply just the answer, then plenty others can please your guy too.

The basics that most guys want out of a women. They want physical connection, they don't want a lot of drama. They also like their independence. If a women feels the need to have to control them, that's not going to work with most guys. Guys love a women they feel that can let them be who they want, and not what the women expects. More importantly, love who they are. I think that's what one of the more important ways in pleasing your guy. Is making sure you aren't denying who they are, or what they want to be. It's easy for a lot of women to try to change a guys way. Doing that can start to push them away from yourself and they start to view you more as headache, than a joy to be with. Women need to avoid this, because this is exactly how you don't please your guy. I don't mean a women can't voice her opinions, of course she can. If a guy is doing something wrong, or hurtful to himself, she definitely needs to step in and be a voice. There's a difference between helping in a positive way, or trying to change him just for yourself.

Being able to listen is a way to please your man as well. There's physical ways to please a guy, with sex, cooking them dinner, or letting them watch football. Some are just simple and not really serious ways to please them. More like quick fixes, although they can have huge meaning. Guys have emotions too, girls. So being able to let them talk and communicate is key in pleasing them on an emotion level. Allowing them to discuss things with you and being able to count on your support. Just like women, guys do need to be able to have a shoulder of support as well.

Speaking of support, that's one of the best way to please your man. Always having his back, always believing in his dreams and goals. Always being the one person he feels he can always count on. This is how you establish a strong, lasting, faithful relationship with a guy. When the man feels because of your support, your undenying love you've given, that he relies on you. It doesn't just become how you please him, it becomes how much they need you. That's not something that their conscience will forget either.

Pleasing a guy isn't too difficult, if you understand the needs of your man. Some guys are different, just like girls. It's difficult to put them in one category, and saying all these certain things will please every male. Most guys want physical connection, support, love, attention, and taken care of. Cooking and cleaning is simple ways to please them, but those aren't the long-term solutions that please a guy. Basically you have to know and learn your man, and figure what his needs are. Figuring out his personality, his moods, his fears. If you figure those out, then you can go from there on how to please him.

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