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is engaging the feminine principle of life is bridging the gap between their Soul's intent and their personality's.

Balance is then established between the inner and the outer activities. The inner estables the connection with self and blueprint and the outer action then is a result of that connection. We then have less running around, having everyone tell us how to do our life and more inner knowing of right action even if we may not have the outer agreement from those around us. We cease being people pleasers. We also cease being split in our consciousness.

We can then say no to someone and they will still be there in relationship with us. That is if we have the appropriate partner. We will only have around us in relationship wherever we are in consciousness. If our actions come from our personality focus instead of our Higher Self then we will have ego personality focused people around us.

When we have an inner knowing coupled with outer action we "know" we are with the appropriate partner. We don't have to manipulate them to hold onto them. We also don't have to look at another person's actions to decide if that is the "right one" for us to have in relationship.

Be willing to surrender to change. When you are able to love, share, grow and evolve the relationship with yourself then you will be able to do the same with others. Your thoughts, feelings, and emotions are manifesting your reality all the time. Are they connected to your Soul's blueprint based in love? True love will maintain a relationship with a man while still having friends.

Absolutely everything manifests from the inside out. As you change, though your friends may change as well. Some people will be consistently transforming themselves which means they may or may not embark on a different path than you. We must be willing to go with the flow in our lives.

Real friends will come and go and won't hold you back from where you need to be on your journey in life. A man that is a true partner won't be threatened by you having your own friends, interests and opinions.

Discover your own vision and context for why you are having a relationship with an intimate partner. What is the big picture? Then go for it! Become the master of your destiny and you will have both an intimate relationship with a man as well as friends that are a part of that vision as well.

When you have the big picture for your life which includes many different kinds of relationships the next step is being and doing your part. From that point you will manifest the man in your life that is perfect for you. You will recognize him because he'll already be part of your inner vision.

Then it won't matter if you have a man with you or not. When you are being yourself and your partner is free to be himself in relationship with you and his friends then you will have him in relationship with you while still having your own friendships.

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