by cyberborgz

Created on: April 26, 2009

First of all I recommend the readers to go through the book, "MEN ARE FROM MARS AND WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS BY JOHN GRAY"
We men and women are classified as creatures from two wonderful planets having landed on this mother earth. We are different in all aspect of life such as the way we love, care and understand the counter part. These differences played a vital role in bringing us together and appreciating each other. Girls loved the strength, personality and warmth of the security bestowed by the men and on the other hand boys loved the love, care and submissive nature of women.

These two creatures started giving more time for each other loving each other's presence not knowing that things are too formal for them. They started appreciating the other and found themselves too much compatible being together. There is something they didn't like, but still in the way to impress each him/her, they started to like and share the same flavor without knowing that things are going to change with time. If a boy start loving his girl too much, he tends to feel too much committed that he starts to change her way of living which she consider being too possessive. He just wants her to know that he considers her life as much as his, but things get misinterpreted. On the other hand the submissive nature of the girl keeps everything in herself piling up the entire grudge against him which could have been solved within a fraction of second if the two cope up with each other bringing out an understanding solution benefited to both. But that doesn't happen.
And a day comes when distance comes into play and the problem erupts from nowhere, bringing out chains of misunderstanding which cannot be clearly wiped out through phone nor any kind of media. Adding fuel on fire, our human ego starts playing its role extending the misconception into bigger flame of mistrust.<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />
This is a common problem faced by all lovers and I assume that some of them really love each other, a TRUE LOVE indeed but the differences and distance comes on the way. And it is not the ultimate solution by breaking up. You can still understand each other more if you try to get to the insight view of the book "Men are from mars and women are from Venus by john gray.
It can happen to anyone and to me.....

"THE GREATEST PAIN OF ALL IS TO LOVE WITHOUT BEING LOVED"

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