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Battle of the sexes: Neither gender is superior

The view that there is a battle between the sexes and that one gender is superior to the other is the core reason we have the problems we have on the planet. This perspective has a base in fear and domination instead of love and a connection with our Divinity.

The real battle fails to be between the sexes but with the Ego personality's limited view of who it thinks it is and how it thinks we should live our lives.

The ego personality in the manifestation of both man and woman is what creates the battle between the sexes and a superior stance in this world.

In Truth we are equals and compliments. We just operate differently in this world. I was sent this quote which was reported to have been made a relationship "expert." It says: "The bottom line between men and women is that women like a man with a plan and men like a woman with a smile." This is an example of a viewpoint that comes from the limiting ego rather than a Higher Self connection with Spirituality.

As both man and woman take back their true empowerment they become more connected to their Divinity and their place within the Divine Plan on earth. They stop looking to each other to take responsibility for fulfilling the plan they think their partner should be following or an image they think their partner should have. We begin to attract to us naturally what is part of that plan.

This is why we have the collapse of so many relationships and organizations at this time. The old concepts of who we perceive ourselves to be are collapsing. It is time to recognize that Love will always be the answer to absolutely every problem experienced on this planet. Love connects. This is more than the limiting concepts to do with physical love.

True love runs through every interaction and every plan when both man and woman recognize that they are the love they desire. When we have this planted within us that love begins to bloom watered by the strength, courage and wisdom we acquire by integrating our Soul essence and purpose. We recognize that we are "One" as well as unique beings with a purpose to fulfill.

Man and woman don't need to do battle or compete with each other or amongst their own sex for they have become the love that they are. This means being fully present here and now in a male or female body that is designed the way it is for a reason. Each design is unique according to the purpose for being here at this time.

At the same time the reference point ceases to be from a body perspective that includes cultural imprinting, past memories and belief systems. Then the identification is with the Multi-dimensional being that we are that is interacting with everyone else on the planet whether we are in the same environment as each other or not.

How can anyone be superior to anyone else when there is recognition of the Truth of who we are that is founded in an infinite love based consciousness? A key point to remember is that we are all in a state of evolution. It is very important to be actively evolving your awareness of who you are and why you are here in your own way.

Wherever we make ourselves superior to the opposite sex we will have the opposite sex seeing themselves as superior to us in the opposite way. Both sexes have strengths and weaknesses. The real challenge is to transform those ego based systems created by both sexes that would annihilate us both.

Ultimately this is something that goes way beyond anything that could possibly be conveyed with language. The universe holds the keys.

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