by Trent Greguhn

Created on: April 23, 2009

Well I'm assuming this question is directed at my own personal tastes of what makes a woman sexy, as I'm sure anyone who is asked this question will have their own answers. My answer has many layers, all of which might go against standard depictions of sexy, but nonetheless I will share what my personal tastes for sexy are.

The standard definition for sexy is something that causes sexual arousal in a person. Given that, I use the term beauty to replace sexy. Some people use the term sexy synonymous with beautiful. I don't. Do a Google image search on the word sexy. What you see is certainly not beautiful. I use beauty because beauty is what gets me sexually aroused and/or what I'm attracted to while sexy doesn't get me there. So from here on out I'll be replacing what makes a woman sexy, with what makes a woman beautiful. So, now that is out of the way I'll explain what I notice from beginning to end about a woman and what makes her beautiful.

Clothes. The way a women dresses herself is the first thing that ever grabs my attention. Now, they don't have to dress nice, per se. A woman needs to find what compliments her body whatever type of clothing that is. I found I'm drawn to tights, high boots, dresses, cardigans; that type of fashion. But again, it isn't the fashion that I'm drawn to that attracts me but how the girl wears it and how it fits on her body. Although I say that, I'm never attracted to ostentatious clothes, too many superfluous layers or over exaggerated logos. Remember with clothing: less is more, subtlety is key.

The next thing I notice is actually sometimes the first, and if I notice this first clothing is only the cherry on the sundae. What I'm speaking of is the face. For me personally, beauty is entirely within the face. It's where I define if a girl is beautiful or not. I then break down the face into two different categories. Eyes and smile. I'll start with the smile first since it is less complicated than the eyes. Smile is a hard thing to change if you have to but it can be the most engaging thing about a woman. It can range from a half smile, slight smile, to a grin or full blown ear to ear. The only tip I can give here is to keep it genuine. No one likes a fake or condescending smile.

Eyes are vastly more difficult to understand, but if you have the right pair they can be the most beautiful thing about a woman. Eye color means nothing here, it's all about the depth. How deep the eye goes. Every day I see people with "dead eyes" the glossed

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