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one that has more than a biological imperative attached to it.

Become who you are from a context of the greater whole of life here on earth. What is the reality that you want to birth? Discover the types of relationships that you want to have both with your partner and other people in your world then create that relationship with yourself. Become those qualities you desire in others.

If you are looking for a quality love relationship with man then engage the male principle in your life while still retaining your feminine blueprint. This will create a radiance that can only come from the integration of your Soul essence with your physical being.

True love glows from more than just dressing up a pretty physical package. The essence of who you are is love and joy. As you establish the integration with your essence you must also embrace all aspects of your Self, even your darkness. This will enable you to bring more depth into your relationships with man. He then doesn't need to take on the protector or fixer upper role with you because you are transmuting your own fears to bring forward your own purpose. Then you are free to be cocreators in a new world.

He will have more respect for your efforts in whatever you do. What he offers then comes from a sincere desire to support you rather than from obligation because he's bound to you in some way. The bonds we have will people are not meant to be like crazy glue.

When you're not picking his brain to give you direction then he is free to offer his gifts to you naturally. He will come into more balance with himself. He will also know more about when you desire his input and when you don't.

This is a key point to having a more balanced sexual relationship. It is only when we realize that we are in relationship with ourself that we can receive relationship with the appearance of other.

If you want to sustain a relationship with a high quality man then become a high quality woman. Lay a foundation that serves not only your biological needs and roles but the Divine Plan as well. You will then bring a different energy to the roles that you do play.

"Know" from the very core of your Being, that you are an aspect of woman with a purpose that does not have to live through others in order to survive. Let your juicieness show. That's your Soul's blueprint glowing.

A woman's true empowerment comes when she "knows" from her heart's knowing who she is and what she is here to share in this world. She ceases being jealous or needing to compete for the opposite sex. She naturally attracts an appropriate mate because she has laid a foundation based on the blueprint that comes from her Soul instead of outer techniques or books she's read. She will also attract a mate that will see beyond her pretty exterior and actions because she also sees with more than 5 senses.

Give him something more than an outer shell to dip into then you won't be wrapping him. Let the old adage of wrapping a man around your little finger be a part of the past. Then you will have a relationship that lasts while blanketing the earth with love. You will "know". True love "knows" from the core essence of us that is inifinite love.

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