by Linda Sajiw

Created on: April 21, 2009

When He Only Wants to Have Sex

When he only wants to have sex perhaps that's all he's being offered. If you are strictly focused on the roles you play in life then he can be missing out on the depth that comes from the stimulation from your Soul.

Become a woman of substance. In order to do this you need to have your own path in life. If your creativity is based on being with him rather than from your connection with your Soul then you are "hooking" him, drawing from his life force. This is called psychic vampirism.

If you are doing this I can gaurantee you that he may play his role that matches the one you've taken on to be with him but he will be looking elsewhere. In which case he is not being fully present with you but he is getting physical stimulation.

This is not a great scenario because when he's not focused on you while having sex or engaging in any other activity with you he is bringing in other energies into the room with you. This is the true meaning of having a relationship with someone who is not there. You can also be doing the same thing. Having sex with someone is so much more than just physical pleasure.

A man will always reflect to a woman how much she is integrated with her core essence. If he only sees you as a sex partner then you might want to ask yourself where you are operating from. Does your knowledge strictly come from reading the latest books or following the latest trends or are you accessing the wisdom that comes from within you.

A true compliment has their own blueprint and is already building their own foundation for their life's purpose. That foundation is being integrated into the very cells of your body as you carve out your physical path in life.

If one or both partners fail to be aligned with their Soul's purpose or blueprint then it's like plugging a 90 watt bulb into a socket that only allows 60 watts. Something will break down somewhere in the relationship. This is also partially why a lot of weight gain and physical diseases occur in relationship. This has to do with a lack of foundation.

Wherever we are in need in relationship we will draw energy from others. The more balanced we are with our own energies the more we have to offer in relationship. There really aren't any victims in this world. There is only a victim consciousness.

If you want to be in a relationship with a man that wants more than just sex then bring your awareness to more than the roles you play in life. Gain a different context for having a relationship,

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