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There is a perception that successful professionals have very few problems on the dating scene. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Doctors, lawyers, engineers, IT professionals, and journalists are just a few of the professional occupations that place significant demands on young practitioners, leaving limited time for romantic pursuits.

Many career professionals face the same problems when it comes to dating. Men and women both attempt negotiating the challenges associated with pursuing a career, and maintaining amorous relationships. But where many women will opt for establishing love and a family at some point during their career cycle, men will usually convince themselves that they must always be the bread winner.

Professional career fields are competitive. Professionals who do not quickly negotiate the learning curve find themselves taking longer to climb the corporate ladder. They enter their careers with the understanding that long hours and a commitment to learning are expected, and put themselves on the fast track toward achieving the American dream. Few become serious about establishing romantic relationships until their careers are well established.

Young professionals put their careers first and everything else second. Allocating time for outside interests often takes a back seat to continued learning and professional development, making it difficult to find fulfilling relationships outside of the work environment. Many young professionals simply put love on the back burner, choosing to first achieve professional goals.

Established professionals often outgrow the need to prove themselves in the workforce, but still commit countless hours to their work responsibilities. For some, it's all they know. Many have burned through marriages and relationships, and their careers remain the one constant that they can still control. They date for companionship, but usually avoid long term or permanent relationships.

Relationships can be demanding, often requiring time and commitment burdens that many professionals feel can wait. Casual dating becomes an attractive alternative, but even that can sometimes lead to relationships more permanent than many young professionals are emotionally prepared for. Many professionals date other professionals, because they feel their work commitments are better understood among peers.

But dating among peers does not guarantee relationship success. Relationship partners sharing similar work commitments may initially be more

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